In different stages of our lives, we define ourselves by whom we belong to. In childhood, we are someone’s daughter or son, sister or brother, granddaughter or grandson. Moving into adolescence, we begin to define ourselves by the groups surrounding us: our sports teams, our church group, our interests. Past high school, we define ourselves by the college we attend, the jobs we find, the social groups we enter, and eventually to the person we marry. Moving through life, we be
